Peace,

I can relate somewhat to what you are saying. My ex does not seem as interested in his children as much as before. He is doing a lot with OW alone rather that with the kids. I actually perfer it this way since OW is as bad as he is.

He made a weird comment the other day about my son. He said that after he goes to college he plans to not be a big part of his life anymore. I thought how weird is that.

Since most of what he says is just gibberish, I ignored it.

I myself have not heard from ex in 10 days.

So, I agree with Snodderly, I think our ML'ers are hitting the withdrawal part of this process.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11