You FIB... August will be two years post filing for me dude. Nothing even near being settled on mine.

I used to question my decision to not co-habitat with Carrie. I used to wonder if I made a mistake making her move out. Then I read what you go through and I do not know if I could be the man that you are. I would have gone nuts and ended my asss in jail or something.

I think you did fantastic today asking that woman to move so you could sit next to your D. Very proud of you dude, we do see changes don't we.

I also agree that calling the school is a bad move. Your schedule does not allow for that sort of thing and right now you have the advantage of contingency plans. You don't want that gone. I do however think maybe slipping away a little early now and again and picking them up yourself would be a good idea if you can.

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Another wash. G-d bless the State of NY.


To me, it is never a wash when she filed the complaints/motions and the judge does not give her the time of day on them. I also told you before that regardless of the judge not ruling, your motions will serve a purpose. he will see her filing these stupid motions and a father who responds with care and concern for his kids. These things stay with a judge my friend. When the hammer drops at the end, he will remember all of this.

Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09