I don't know everything about DB but it seems to me that Dark is Dark. No contact. Since you have kids that's not possible so I would say dark except to do with the kids. But that's just my opinion. Sandi knows more than I do about this stuff.
Kittyfish,
In your opinion, how would you have reacted to Dark. In Stuck's thread, you sound alot like what my wife has said.
It's now the second day that I haven't talked to my wife. She had the kids call me last nite and tonite to say good nite, but she didn't get on the phone like she used to.
I'm so torn as she has told me twice in the past couple of weeks that if I want to call her I should. But this is so anti-DB/DR Dark.
I know one of the issues we had in the past is that she would say something and I would twist it around in my mind to mean something else and we would be completely on the wrong page.
Right now, my goal is to make it until Thurs without talking to my wife (I will see her on Thursday when we take our 7 year old to get his cast taken off).
Thanks for your support
Me 41 WAW 36 S 3&7 M 10 yrs W files D 1/9/09 W moves out 4/18 Lost job 6/15 New job 7/27 Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!) Confronted 8/11 Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11 Lost Job 11/13