From a man's perspective you will have to draw the line. and take responsibility for your own happiness. This is hard, but you have to be interesting, different, mysterious, sexy, and giving him space all at the same time. Don't show him affectionate love if he is not ready to receive it. Be willing to change, if you are controlling, stop!, change yourself, deal with the issue at hand, Read the Divorce remedy by Michelle...
ME 43 Her 37 Married 6/98 2 sons 8 and 3 Love em tons Seperated March 20th Her- not sure Me willing to make changes