PM just checking in. You have made leaps and bounds these past few months.

You have turned into a Goddess! Your H does not know how to handle this woman. He was used to making all the shots and now you are asking questions and making decisions without him. That is a reality check in itself.

Glad you are going to see your family. I will be seeing mine sometime this summer. I need it but it triggers the start of the A last year when D15 and myself went on the visit and H was deep in the A and I had no idea.

Your MIL is now at the mercy of her son. She has lost more than she can imagine.

Take care of yourself.


Me 53
H 50
D16, D29
M 22 years
bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H
8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also
bomb II - H moves 10/1
expose ow 10/22
D to be final 9-09