Yoyo, just stopping in the playhouse, I can see the leaps and bounds you have made.
Ask your atty how many cases has she handled going into court and her track record.
I am in a community state and it will be tough for me here even with a long term M. We are a fault state but even charging H with A is not that significant.
You need to toughen and play hard ball. I still have love for my H but I need to fight the good battle. I know any money he gets will be blown on the OW. He has put him in huge financial debt. I cannot help him but only help myself.
When it comes down to everything -- we decide and when they see we are not rolling over -- the waywards start to get surprised because they have had the upper hand for so long.
Take care.
Me 53 H 50 D16, D29 M 22 years bomb 7/08 INH - alien pod replaces H 8/08 - OW (direct report), I work there also bomb II - H moves 10/1 expose ow 10/22 D to be final 9-09
