Yes you did mention you were getting a D, but I appreciate a woman's POV in all things that deal with "attraction".
I did try to do the same things I had before, but they had no effect. Right now she's not ready to accept anything like that, so I give her space, show her compassion when it's called for and try to go on about my own business. She seems miserable, but that's her choice. I'm trying not to make it mine.
She's always been attractive to me which makes our lack of sex all the more frustrating to me at times. Plus there are the periods that I get insecure and imagine other men hitting on her. That heaped with the comment she made a couple of weeks ago about her not wearing her ring because she doesn't consider us married, really hits below the belt sometimes.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.