SP: There's a difference between me feeling sorry for you and me acknowledging that -- whether you accept it or not, whether you're "really" alone or not, whether you drift from one man to another or become a nun or not -- I took you there. You had a home, and through my neglect of your needs and feelings I've chased you out of it.
MAN, SP, it sure seems like you're putting ALL (or nearly all) of the burden for HER deciding to be wayward on YOU!!!
Is this how you truly feel, or is this some sort of unilateral disarmament thing you doves like to do when confronted with an immutable force???