Just make sure you are getting your work done. I count my blessing work slowed down during my divorce. I am thankful that my boss was understanding. Others may not be so lucky....
Thinking positive thoughts helps. Sending blessing to spouse is very powerful. Flush all the negative thoughts away.
Glad to hear you feel like eating.
No on likes to be controlled. You both need your freedom. YOU have your boundaries that you need to enforce for your own happiness and safety. Let him know what they are.
Ask for what you want. "I am going to MC on XYZ. I would prefer if you joined me, but will understand if you choose not to go".....
MLC happens at different times for everyone. YES it is possible.
HUGS
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
