Definitely let DH think whatever he wants to think. He's not there and he's not the one dealing with the situation. All that is important, obviously, is the health of your child.

I'm so sorry you are facing this huge issue SMW. I'm sure you will find a supportive yet firm way to handle her.

(((((SMW)))))

T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!