Could you please tell me more about the needing to be pursued? That is very much how I feel. It seems that if I did anything to initiate, it would just be annoying to him. He would probably not say no (or maybe he would?), but he would feel pressured and it would be pity sex. yuck. Who wants that? And I do want to be pursued a little. The feeling desirable is almost as good as the orgasm. Do I need to just give up hoping for that?
I have more to ask, but this is enough for now, I guess,
