IWITW, Google "compassionpower" by Stosny.
Yes,you can change. You have to understand your emotions and become self-aware. Do it for yourself. You can handle it.
Cheers
Coach


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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.