I just dropped off his deposit checks... the manager there seemed pretty aware of the situation - she says they see all kind of situations there. She said I was so cute, maybe she was expecting some kind of evil monster W... I have absolutely NO idea what H is saying about me. I can't believe that anybody *isn't* reaming him a new one.

It's not like we're having trouble getting along. It's not like we fight all the time. It's basically that he wants freedom to come and go as he wants, and live like a single guy with no responsibilities.

I'm trying to be nice about this, and encouraging of H finding his own space and working out whatever his issues are right now, but at what point am I just being his doormat? I want him to go to MC with me in a couple of weeks, so I will go along with everything he wants right now.

Is it possible to have a MLC before you hit 30?

Me - 30, H - 32
T - 10, M - 6, D - 1
DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2
on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10)
Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011