Second (and I don't know HOW MANY TIMES I've had this convo with WAW), and at the risk of a blanket generalization, most men REALLY DON'T CARE. What gets us going is a woman's attitude. Sure, we like the Hugh Hefner-supplied woman -- TO LOOK AT. Just like you like the six-pack-ab guy we'll never be. (There's a reason why Greek statues represented "ideals" of physical beauty, even to the ancient Greeks, friend!)
This is SOOO true! It's exactly right! We (men) just want you (women) to be happy with the way you look, because THAT is what attracts us. Had that convo with W numerous times since we have been together.
Just been on vacation for a week, so just like AJ, reading through 2 pages of posts creates a clearer picture than when you check on a daily basis. It seems to me like H is coming around a bit. He did not run away when he caught you crying, he tried to make you feel better. Making jokes may not feel like the best way to you, but that's what he thought of and he made an effort. Especially considering he's a RUNNER as you said, it's a worthy effort from him. Also, planning for the future (houses and stuff) is not coming from someone who's thinking of bailing on you!
