GETTING UN'STUCK'

[Thinker]

There was a comment my W made early on about how she was never physically attracted to me and that's how a R should start. I know she probably didn't mean it...

Hi Stuck,

I got (and continue to get) the same thing from my W - "I'm just not attracted to you!".

I think my W means it, and I am pretty sure yours does as well. It's not meant as an insult, just an honest statement of their feelings.