I hope I didn't offend you in regard to my decisions. I have thought long and hard as this will severely test what we have as a R.
I know for a fact my W will kick and scream and may well consult her L again, and in the past I would have folded to appease my Wand not offend her in hope of reconcilliation.
The worm has turned as the old saying goes, but I will do this without malice, spite or anger. I will remain calm, not engage and as Puppy says 'do what I think is right if God was standing in front of me' if I remember rightly.
I am not doing this to spite my W, but I believe it is the right thing to do for my children. Financially, it also makes economic sense as we would share the mortgage and bills rather than paying for a flat and the marital home.
My W has lost all sense of reason as the only thing she wants is to be in the house without interference from me. She has a 4 bedroom house to go to which is empty and the children love it there and it is only around the corner.
I will let my W lose control and indirectly I am starting to regain some self esteem, clear decision making, and clarity without the emotional side getting in the way. I know this is getting to her but I have to do what is right but remembering to keep my emotions out of my decisions.
Bomb dropped: 19/12/08 Me:48 WAW:41 D:10 S:6 Married: 15 years
