hey there, it is a hard sitch so dont' be hard on yourself.

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She said that nothing will really change because we are keeping the houses and nesting.

What a control freak, she seem like she's made the decisions for both of you, glad you are standing up to it -- I mean, 2 years?? that would be agony and not fair at all to you.
The kids are affected by the amount of conflict more than with the D itself, so I disagree with your T, if nesting is making you so miserable then you shouldn't settle for it.


Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2

30something
2kids
survivor of S, MLC, A, D
I have peace in my heart, at last.