I thought she said something weird about the fourth of July weekend, like she was trying to make sure I had the kids or something. She's been very evasive discussing the whole week leading up to the fourth of July, so I can only assume she's planning on meeting OM somewhere, or worse, that OM is coming here. I really can't afford to obsess about it. It'll drive me crazy. I've detached quite a bit, but I have more to go.
She is definitely planning on travelling to see OM in late August. When we discussed our schedules for the summer, and I told her I was going to take the kids to visit my parents in late August, she immediately made plans to go see OM over that week. Makes me ambivalent about going anywhere, but I won't be a hostage to this whole situation. I'm going to live my life, regardless of whatever she and OM are doing. However, if she continues to see OM, I might have to go darker, harden up the boundaries, and move on for my own sanity.
