Have you tried flirting or any non-sexual touches, doing the 5 Love Language stuff? It's obvious if after a year, things aren't working so time to do something else.

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2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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