Ok, cue the circus music. This has been a long strange weekend. H and OW started fighting Friday afternoon. She was mad because she wanted him to babysit and he refused. Apparently she found someone else to and they both ended up at the cardroom where it continued until he left.

I was awoken Sat. morning at 6:30 to a phone call from H telling me that there was probably a text on my phone from OW. So I turned it on and there was, but I didn't respond. We talked and he ended up working all day long. He mentioned that she was saying some really strange things to him like: "Youre going to regret it when I'm gone!" "I'm going to make you pay" and other things that gave him the impression that she wanted to hurt him or herself. He got home at about 9:30 that night and she wanted him to babysit. He said no and she got mad (again). So Sunday rolls around and he slept in and he called her when he got up so he could watch the baby while she moved (yes, MIL let her rent the house...not my business!). OW tells H its too late for her to do anything and to just forget it. Then proceeds to call him and text him constantly throughout the next several hours.
It got so bad that he told her he was going to file a restraining order on her if she didn't leave him alone. So who does she call then? ME!!!

WTF is the deal with this woman? What does she want/think she is going to get from me? She calls to tell me that she has finally made him hate her and he is filing a restraining order. That we can have our 2nd chance...my reply was, "Didn't we have this conversation last week?" I then just told her that I didn't know what she wanted me to say or what she thought my response should be. If a R has reached the point that people are threatening restraining orders and such, there seems to be a problem.
Not really sure what is going on now, but he did watch the baby last night. I'm tired of all of this BS and now H is seriously considering filing B, because he cant pay his bills.


M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option