Show her you love her in your actions. Actions speak louder than words. Respect her choices.
Love is an action word. Love = patience and kindness. Love = empathy and understanding.
To make it right, just work on YOU. Put the relationship on hold.
You might try saying "I am sorry the air is not working, what are you going to do about it?"
As far as the pulling away, Mirror her. I found that pulling away faster than her stopped her from pulling away farther. This is hard to do but works. People want what they cant have. People like people who are like them.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
