This week as I mentioned my wife is away for a week with the kids, first time that She has been away. I am glad that she is gone because I can reflect without seeing her, I am glad that I can work on a few personal things while she is gone, like self control, emotional control, and self worth, I am supposed to clean the house, but I have been spending my time running, and working. I painted our bonus room until I ran out of paint, and I am going to go to guitar lessons today. We have talked on the phone 3 times since Friday, all upbeat as always, I am tryng not to call, and I hope she finds peace for at least a week, When she comes back this weekend are there any suggestions as to deal with the transition, because I am compfortable at the moment with no stress, and I don't want that stress to creek in, I have been thinking about going out more on my own with friends, but don't want to shirk my responsibilities as a father.
I'm actually looking forward to my H getting an apartment for the same reason... We're so good over the phone right now, but in person it seems like something is always hanging there...
Me - 30, H - 32 T - 10, M - 6, D - 1 DD#1 - 4, DD#2 - 2 on/off OW 4/09 - sometime Summer 2010 (Told me about OW 4/10) Separated 6/11/09, divorced 8/4/10, trying again 9/2011
