I think that you are right in really assessing what is my end goal. My end goal is to have a stronger M. I am not angry at him really. I just think he is quitting and well, I am collateral damage. I will do just fine on my own. What does irritate me is the fact that he keeps justifying his behavior of being parental towards me.
I normally have not and do not say anything. I figure he will figure it out eventually. Well, to me this is a 180. I am person who does not confront. Walking on egg shells around him is what has gotten me to this place to begin with. I am not trying to be mean to him. I have no ill-will towards him actually. I think he is stuck in a bad place....and isolating himself is not really helping him. He is only keeping in touch with me. We have good general conversations. Things are not comfortable....but, I have not really seen him since January and now all this...
I cannot get him to do anything obviously. But, I can lay down some ground rules and I don't like being spoken to as a child. He can think it, but I don't want to hear it.
Anyways, I hope you are doing well. Thank you for responding and caring enough to post on my blog.
I am trying to decide what to wear for this office dinner event. I need to get a mani/pedi....but, I have very little funds...so I am really trying to figure out what to do. I really stink at doing this myself..but, I may just have to!
Other than that...I will unpack today. Try to get the tv working. and I really think I will take a bath tonight.
