Thanks for sharing info. about that fertility site. I will have to check it out.
R means Relationship/Reconciliation and D means divorce. When the LBS is going dark or GAL, it is in our best interests to NOT bring up talk about either R and D. It only puts pressure on the WAS and pushes them further away.
It's a great sign that he's not having an affair, makes it less complicated. Right now, it looks like you're doing all the things that you're supposed to be doing. Keep up the great work!
My biggest issue right now is that I want to continue being a part of my stepson's life. However, I do not know if I should try to spend time with my SS or if I should just detach from his as well. I sometimes think that if I completely withdrew from both of them, then my H really would miss me and have to be self-reflective of his actions.
Right now, I don't have any control over him, just myself. So all I can do is take one small step at a time by GAL, PMA, and Dbing and know that in the end I will get through a stronger person no matter what the outcome.
Take care and keep in touch!
Me 40 WAH 43 T 4 years M 9 1/2 months H moved out 3 weeks ago stepson 9 No D filed
