Still Living Like Room Mates

[HHIF]

She is the one that filed for D and she is the one that asked me to come back home and stopped the D.I know two big reasons that she did ask me back home were our kids and finances,but she did say that she wanted to see if we could work things out.She told me when we first got back together not to push sex because she wasn't ready for that she wanted to work on the friendship first.She is confused and she does worry about paying bills and keeping kids happy and her job,all of that stuff worries her and I think she has trouble relaxing.I do feel like if I can find a way to get the financial pressure off of us that she would be much more at ease and look at me different,and no all of the issues that caused the seperation have not been fixed yet.and I do believe fear does keep me from confronting her,she knows I'm not happy with the way our marriage is and she's not either but niether of us treat the other bad or are involved with other people we are just kind of stuck right now and I'm not sure what if anything I can do about it.