Couple of things...I was told this by a very wise eclesiastical leader... IF you are home a couple of things can happen. 1. children will not be upset. 2. your wife could use the help. 3. It will give you a chance to work on patience, not run away from it. 4. you can work on being the friend your wife has been craving. 5. keep improving yourself.
Leaving always seems like the best answer because it is easiest. The Hard road is often the best. Remember this is a Marathon not a sprint. This is a part of scripture that you can put on your wall, or in your wallet.........and bear with patience thine afflictions and I will give unto you success".
Cheers
ME 43 Her 37 Married 6/98 2 sons 8 and 3 Love em tons Seperated March 20th Her- not sure Me willing to make changes