Been following along this thread....AAK, you definitely inspire me to take a hard look at my sitch and see if "standing" is worth it, what I want.
I keep hearing from people that when a person is ready to move on, they know it and don't look back. I sure hope so. I would never have thought I would feel like hanging in at this point...but you never know until it happens, I guess.
Still, I do somewhat believe in the notion of being stong at this point in our marriage if that is how I feel and that is what it takes. I know my H has been strong for us in the past, and if we come through this, we together would be stronger in the future. Sill, its like, can you throw me a freakin bone here...I am running out of gas!
Anyway, I think you and Lucky Girl are awesome...If I get to the point where I need the granny on the porch with the shot gun...maybe I could call on you two :-)
Me 30 H 33 together:10 years married:5 years Separated: 1/23/09 living apart 5 mos and counting "when you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on"-FDR
