And, I played it pretty cool despite my inner spinning.
A&K, You posted to Antlers that you were better helping others than yourself. Can you say co-dependent. Take care of yourself. So how to use that to your advantage while you are working on it? Detach and look down on your sitch like you are a outsider and coach yourself, you are on the outside looking in the fishbowl. What would you tell yourself to do? What's holding you back? Choose to love yourself. You can handle it. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.