I agree that Dark is harder when there are kids involved. I don't think exposing the kids to a no contact scenario is very good for them - (ie having the kids go out to the driveway by themselves when she shows up to pick them up). So when we are "together", I plan on being the warm, caring, attentive person I want my boys to be.
I think that's the way to go.
Me:40 W: 39 T: 17 years M: 15 years S-9 D-6 D final 11/10/2009
"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."