Kittyfish,

I agree that Dark is harder when there are kids involved. I don't think exposing the kids to a no contact scenario is very good for them - (ie having the kids go out to the driveway by themselves when she shows up to pick them up). So when we are "together", I plan on being the warm, caring, attentive person I want my boys to be.

That's my opinion but I'll wait for Sandi and others to chime in on that


Me 41
WAW 36
S 3&7
M 10 yrs
W files D 1/9/09
W moves out 4/18
Lost job 6/15
New job 7/27
Disc PA 8/10 (started Nov 2008!)
Confronted 8/11
Admits PA & appologies for hurt 9/11
Lost Job 11/13