Hi traveldane,

Sounds like you're doing great with the DBing. Do you have 2 different threads going on?

Going dark is not going that good for me. I really need to focus on GAL and PMA big time. I just need to detach cold turkey. This week maybe will be easier because he will be in LA for a week.

I need to start setting up some daily/weekly goals for myself. I think that would help.

Reading what you and orchid have been doing inspires me. Keep up the great work!

Me 40
WAH 43
T 4 years
M 9 1/2 months
H moved out 3 weeks ago
stepson 9
No D filed