Thanks for your suggestions, Kara. I actually have the praying wife book and have used it but stopped for awhile (and picked up the praying parent one, thinking of moving my focus more on the kids) but I'm sure it wouldn't hurt to pick it up again!:)
I was actually doing the Love Dare book when the bomb happened because for awhile I could sense something wasn't right. It is all the wrong stuff, too, for this situation - the pursuing, etc. I think it would be great for couples wanting to fine tune and work on the marriage, but not in this case. However, I will say that it was a blessing having done that because it had taken away a lot of the anger I already was feeling with the way I was being treated and helped me realize love is an action which is helping me now.
Has he said anything about the ring? Isn't it crazy how these things can really knock us for a loop? Does he see the bedroom to notice you have made changes?
Keep hanging on to God's promises. Will pray for you!
