Gonna Get Me A Mojo Hand

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No, I am not saying believe or not. I know even less about the truth of your sitch than you do. I'm just pointing out that your WAS are real, live hurting people - no matter what they say or do. Remember, they have been in the same unhappy marriage that you have been in. And it might be helpful ~~~ and certainly loving ~~~ to at least remember that about the person you are dealing with.

I guess this might not be a very popular pose to strike on this board - be compassionate with your WAS - the one who is ripping your family to shreds. I get that. Trust me - I get that. I just want to make the small point that the WAS is not just "script".