Saffie,

I could not agree more. I know indifference is the opposite of Love, I also know that she does not love me anymore, in fact I don't think she even cares about me anymore.

If I am getting to her it is because she is not getting her own way....period. The turmoil within her is not whether she has made the right decision over our R, she has been very clear on this and says she has made the right decision.

I believe her turmoil is a mixture of things maybe not quite being as cosy as she thought they would be. There maybe a problem with her possible OM, not having enough time to herself to indulge her new lifestyle, the effect on the children, possible monetary issues.

I would love to know the answer because she is still angry even though she is now getting to a place SHE wants to be, so why the anger?


Bomb dropped: 19/12/08
Me:48
WAW:41
D:10
S:6
Married: 15 years