Today WAH is heading to LA for a week to visit his dad and some companies that he works for. I want to send him an email letting him know that a friend had left a message and also I want to wish him fun on his trip. Would that be pursuing?

Tomorrow I want to call my MIL and talk to her about everything. She did tell me to give her a call sometime the last time I spoke with her. But do I need to detach from her as well?

Mornings are always the hardest. I need to start making daily/weekly goals like I've seen some of you doing.

I wonder if my H ever thinks about me. My life has turned out so differently from what I wanted.

Me 40
WAH 43
T 4 years
M 9 1/2 months
stepson 9
H moved out 3 weeks ago
No D filed