Stuck.....I guess I am stuck as well....what have been some of your benchmarks? I guess I am looking for a starting point. Heck, maybe I alread have one, but my head is spinning so much that I just cant see it right now.
JoJo, thanks for the advice about the heart. I guess that is what it needs to come down to. Too many times we make decisions out of fear, or pain or anger instead of out of compassion. I need to take some time and just truly listen to what my heart is saying. And no, I will not back down from my boundaries. I told him last night that if he even wanted to start a friendship with me, then there could be absolutely no contact with her...none, not even a txt message or a quick email. If I find out there has been contact, then things would go right back to the way they were before. His reply "I already knew that was the deal. I couldnt imagine disrespecting you even further by having contact with her."
Gypsy, oh my lovely and beautiful Gypsy....how I missed your melody of sage words. I will be checking on you soon. Thank you for your continue support and love.
Broken Hearted ------------------ Me - 36 H - 37 S - 8 Married - 1992 ILYNILWY - August 2007 Moved Out - March 2008 OW Revieled - May 28, 2008 Filed for D - July 2, 2008
