Gosh if only reason and logic was all it took to fix our sitches. If our WAS could only see things differently then our M and family would stay intact. Here's part of the LBS fog: our wives/husbands are just as scared, hurt, confused, frustrated, and impatient as us, we just can't see it. Why can't we see it- we are still holding onto unproductive and unhealthy beliefs and actions. Our spouses believe they are taking the best course of action, any talk, prayers, pressure and reasoning won't change it right now. BTDT, didn't work for me either. You have to emotionally lead thru this time. You can't emotionally lead until you get your emotions under control and have let go of the fear, anger, and frustration you hold onto. Mojo isn't the right tool to accomplish this. It's is loving yourself first, practice self-care, examine your emotions, thoughts and feelings. Work on your physical, emotional, intellectual and emotional fitness. This about working on yourself. Cross the chasm from fear to love. You have a choice in how you handle things. To choose wisely think thru your sitch and seek understanding. What are things you can do to improve yourself and care for your beloved when things seem the darkest? This time in your life becomes a whole lot easier once you realise it's all about you. You can make a difference, you are being watched (spouse, friends, family, DBers), you will thrive once you get it, and it does matter how you handle yourself. Strength and Honor. Cheers
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
