Kevin that was almost a positive post from you...WHY

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What I don't continue to get is W thanking me for watching the kids on her night. Like it is a burden to me. She truly doesn't get that they come first to me and are more important than anything else. She just doesn't get that. I'd take them full time if I could. I asked her if we could switch on when we take them in the middle of the week from Wednesday night to Thursday night and she said she already had plans. I said ok. No biggie. But its just interesting to me that her plans are more important than the kids. Its almost like a burden to her in a way. She really enjoys her single time. Where as I really enjoy my kids and my family. It just seems like something is not right there. She doesn't ever really call them during the week when they are with me. I'm not sure why. Maybe she just forgets because she is caught up in whatever she is doing.


WHY would you judge her like this? She has plans that DOESN'T mean your kids aren't important to her, really shame on you for even thinking that. There should be times when you can't take the kids because you have plans, that doesn't make the plans more important AT ALL...


Me:40
W: 39
T: 17 years
M: 15 years
S-9
D-6
D final 11/10/2009

"We are all faced with a series of great opportunities brilliantly disguised as insoluble problems."