Ha ha. I chuckled out loud when I read your last line! Yes, I live on an island too technically but with one million other people so no that does NOT count.
No, I am sure MIL think of my parents as the evil enemy who has taken the grandbabies away from her. I am sure she doesn't see her hand in this situation but again, I am detaching now and don't really care about how others perceive me. It's a big 180 for me as I was always a people pleaser. But H is taking them to see her so that's good for her.
My BFF's friend came down with breast cancer this month. This lady had gone thru a divorce for two years, no cancer in her family at all. We believe it's the stress that caused her cancer.
So my friends, monitor your stress levels. Do everything to please yourself and take care of your health. Without health, we cannot do ANYTHING. So just let go.
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Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
