I don't want to hijack your thread and I am not ready to start my own yet.
My story in short is married 12 years, S/11, D/9, D/6 and D/19 from first marrige. 11/07 was the ILYBNILWY speech and MC shortly there after. I thought things were better till Feb of this year when I got the "its over" speech when she started up with her job again for the season and she took her ring off. Since then still in same house, with threats of "I am moving out" weekly.
WAW works long hours to avoid me and the kids and I am a stay at home dad. MC over the last couple of months has helped, until last week in counseling she once again says I don't love you anymore and want out. I am trying my best to apply DR and DB principals with some success, but I feel like and MC agrees that no matter what I do or don't do WAW is gone.
This breaks my heart and that is why all I can do is take it one day at a time.
Thanks for the encouragment mnt about reponding,and letting me post here.
