Kev, I understand why you would want to give her a card and a small present. I did the same thing. Though when you give it to her, don't project, puppydog eyes and sad little smile as if to say that you really miss her. Do it with a smile and say it's from Weeman. Hopefully this will take away any of the pursuing vibes of the gift.
Visitations, if you think it's fair then it's gotta be this way. But only if you believe in your heart that it is fair. I don't want to see you get resentful of your W later on. That's what you may want to watch out for.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
