To all...back in court this morning. I feel so out place here. The characters....going up the elevator...with the hot blondes D'ing their H's...the sad looking guy asking for directions to Bankruptcy court...the biker dudes with the chains hanging off their beltloops heading to criminal court....and me.

Today...the judge reads my cross motion and will probably render a decision on whether a THIRD request to have me thrown out should be honored.

I have mentioned the parenting plan thing multiple times and my L tells me it comes in the final decree. Unless separated legally, this is what it is

Quote:
L: FIB...most of my men are thrown out of the house or spend a night in jail. You are still in and see your kids everday. I don"t wantyou to be thrown out. Don't nitpick and do the best you can. I know I am keeping you there under difficult circumstances but if you get thrown out, you will never get divorced.


To frank...thanks for picking uo on the betrayal I feel from 'Pavarotti'. It stung to see STBXW there when I dropped off D6... chatting away at his pool party. He chose the 'I don"t want to choose/it's about the kids' defense over our longterm friendship. I hate to say this now...but I wonder if he 'did" STBXW. I have my suspicions but I am getting divorced and this is water under the bridge. My trust and friendship with him now...and his GF who is an OR nurse that I have known for almost 20 years (she just went thru a D)...is damaged

On more upbeat notes...I was on call for the ER the other day and in walks S8's asst principal. Made a good call and I end up taking out her inlamed appendix. The principal was aware as well.

STBXW is such an idiot. She gave up a great husband and a loving father,

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;