You should be surprised because you've misread, it's me who is taking the kids to see my Mom and Dad for a month. H is complaining that it's so long. Though he didn't complain when the original plans was for us three to visit HIS mother.
So, he is feeling things are getting out of control. OK. New situation, new rules. He just hasn't learned that he can't mess up everyone's lives without his own being messed up as well. None of us live on an island. It's all a chain reaction.
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09