I feel a little stuck in that area. It seems to me that being flirty or romantic when he is not interested would increase my feelings of being rejected, make me look foolish, and just put pressure on him.
But I took your advise to heart, and yesterday I had my hair and make up done and had a cute outfit on when he got home (well ya know, a pair of shorts and a cute t-shirt, it's hot and I got kids to take care of and dishes to wash and laundry to do! There's really not a lot of super cute outfits going on, but it wasn't ugly or sloppy...)
OK, so what else can I do? Any specific reference to sex makes him pretty uncomfortable, so I think a sexy text or e mail would not be so good. He does not notice provocative clothing at all. (Seriously, I could put my boobs on my face and he wouldn't notice...) We are really in that place of him setting the pace for our sex life. I am not sure how to express myself, and I am kinda "stuck". I have forgotten how to be flirty. Please give me some direction here!
And then what do I do when he starts talking about how tired he is, his headache, etc? I am trying very hard not to get too sad, so how do I put myself out there, get rejected, and not get hurt (or at least not let it show?)
