I'm glad you sound as though you're on top of the sitch PM. It's good that you're so focused on your kids and you and getting the best you can.

I must say I'm a bit surprised that your H has suddenly decided to take the kids away for a whole month! Do you think that might help him build a much stronger bond with them? Surely that would be a good thing?

You make me a bit red-faced with your compliments PM. I know for a fact though that there are many guys out there who love kids and would do anything for them. The problem I have with faith though is when women bypass those guys and go for the exciting, bad boy who adopts the 'Treat them mean, keep them keen' way of thinking. It's frustrating when I realise that no matter how much I love Wee Man and how nice a person I am to all those around me, it's still not enough for my W. Aside from all that though, thank you for your kind words PM. For my part I know I would have found this whole experience a lot harder if I hadn't had you in my corner. You've always been an inspiration and a rock when I've needed one.

Kev X


Me: 32, Wife: 22
Son: 2
Married: 2 years
Separated: January 5th 2009

Sometimes you have to become lost before you can find yourself.