Looks like we were typing at the same time and thinking of each other.
Yes, my H is foggy. I thought he has been thinking clearly abt his 'final decision' to leave me and not work on our M but still it's with a foggy mind.
You are so right, he is hurting himself SO MUCH more than he is hurting us. I can handle it, I know I am strong and I have weathered the worst (2nd bomb a year ago). Now, I see my sitch and I see choices, good choices and I feel blessed.
I am the one with good choices, he has made a mess of his life and has to sleep in this mess. God knows what kind of R he's gotten himself into, not good I think. Oh well, I think to myself, 'He is not my problem any longer. I don't need to worry about him anymore.'
Me:39 H:40 S:9 D:7 First Bomb ONS:June 07 Second Bomb OW: March 08 Separated: March 08 M:15 yrs T:18 yrs H deep into A with OW Achieved ACCEPTANCE May 30, 09
