Trying to detach from the madness!

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I swear I need a nice long quiet vacation! There are so many emotional changes going on in my life with my kids and family that I feel overwhelmed. Good stuff but its definately a lesson in letting go.

So exh sent a text yesterday in the afternoon. It was a visit day so I was expecting it to be for that. "If you and the kids aren't doing anything on Wed. its SD's graduation and wanted to know if you wanted to go. I can get tickets. Only if you want to." Well, I figured it was my turn to do something nice. Wednesday my kids already have some plans with their dad so they couldn't go anyway, but I did reply that I will bring baby. Its her sister. I don't think a 14 month old will make it thru an entire graduation, but at least we will try. I don't have plans to sit with him. Probably by the door so we can make a quiet exit if we have to.

Then an hour later he heard sirens and wanted to make sure we were ok. That is something I do with my kids but he hasn't done that before. Whatever.

He never showed for his visit although I know he was home by 5. So strange.

Onward and upward!