I feel very sad it has come to this, in fact it is going to get worse before it gets better (for me). I believe my W dislikes me now even though I have not really done anything wrong, the reason she dislikes me is because I am now starting to assert some resistance. Whether I gain some respect back I don't know, but it will make me feel better for my own self-esteem. I will not raise my voice or engage in confrontation or argument during our conversations, I will try and keep the moral high ground, and most importantly I will not try to be nasty or mean. I just want what is fair as she wants everything at the moment.
Mark,
This sounds like a very wise and healthy mindset for you at this stage.
