Yes we do get to the point where the R no longer bothers us where we can realize it might be for the best and better than we ever imagined without M our true purpose I believe is to grow, become spiritual, love be authentic, live in moment all R have to come second sometimes we may have to lose M to find ourselves and yes..possibly for some of us, the opportunity to restore M will happen so in truthwe win either way its just a painful process but pain brings the real change we are really wanting within us peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow