Yeah we actually don't fight in front of the kids. Or really we don't fight. She yells at me. I tell her I am sorry she feels that way. She yells at me some more and we call it a night. I don't think there is any hope at this point. We're scheduled for a court date in about a month and I don't think that she will waver from her course. I'm keeping my distance and following the basic principals, but it feels academic at this point.